Tuesday, November 29, 2005

john cusack and gay men

so i spent friday night watching "grosse pointe blank" on tv. god i love that film. god i love john cusack. i don't know what it is about him but he is so damn hot and so many women love him. i think every woman (or at least alot of them) want their man to have a little bit of john's wit and charm - i know i do!

saturday i went to kiwigirl's flatmate's boyfriend's house party. he lives in a tiny but GORGEOUS flat smack dab in the middle of covent garden. talk about prime real estate. sushi and dim sum were the nibblies, my favourite siu mai and bbq pork bun, mmm... all the men at the party were gay (except one guy who looked like hugh grant apparently (i don't remember), but he was with - who else - his girlfriend). i had some great conversations with some of the men; all the single, heterosexual ladies at the party (of which there were four) agreed that why can't straight guys be more like gay men? is that not the lament of the 21st century?

i think gay men have the best of both worlds. they are more in tune with the female sensibility and yet retain much of their masculinity (except for drag queens i guess?), and it's a beautiful masculinity at that! alas.

my male friends, gay or straight, leave a comment here for the ladies letting us know why this is so?

CET

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